narcissist
ˈnɑːsɪsɪst/
noun
noun: narcissist; plural noun: narcissists
- a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves.
"narcissists who think the world revolves around them"
I think it's okay for us to be a narcissist sometimes. I sometime think of myself to be pretty when I want to boost my confident level. It is not severe, but I think people do need it sometimes. I once thought that people taking selfies are crazy, but now I just think that they want to boost their confident level. My first impression of people that are taking lots of selfies are that they do not have confident in themselves so they take selfies to appreciate their face or personality. They will praise their own self for being given a beautiful face.
But then again, 'Beauty Lies on the Eyes of The Beholder'. We think our face is enough to rake the praises from people, but others may think otherwise. They may say that we are ugly or 'fake'. Well, you cannot shut other people's mouth. Just ignore them. I like this sentence "I don't give a damn of what's coming out from their mouth". Just focus on yourself and ignore those people, but do not think highly of yourself. It is a waste of time to even think about them.
People can be discouraged because of unattractive appearance. They might lost their confidence but do not think that beauty is the only way to boost your confidence. If you have better education, experience, good personality or knowledge, you can be better than the others. There are so many factors to boost your confident level other than beauty. You can be a narcissist (one that appreciate their face not the one that idolize their face) or you can develop other factors to be confident. I like being a narcissist because I think it helps me with me being confident about everything. I like to keep a low profile because I keep thinking that there are many beautiful girls than me. I felt so discouraged. But as I said "I don't give a damn of what they are talking about me". From there I started to take of myself and learn to have a good personality.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to have a personality disorder. Just that you have to appreciate of what God has given us not idolize or glorify with the beauty.
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